"I'd like you to join me on Wednesdays as together we examine ideas and concepts on how to truly Live Life and experience all this life has to offer. I believe that when we walk with God, He enables us to live beyond the limits we see ahead on our path, growing and stretching us to heights and lengths we never thought possible! Please come along and see what God has is store for us on this journey through life!"
Love, Linda

Wednesday, January 25, 2012

KEY #A17: ULTIMATE RELATIONSHIP

The Ultimate Relationship . . . between an individual and God.  Last week we talked about Relating in Relationships.  This week we are focusing on the Ultimate Relationship, between God and me . . . or God and you . . . expressed primarily through God's completed Word, the Bible, on His part and through prayer on our part.
Since prayer is so crucial in developing this relationship, how do we go about doing it?  Again, this is a huge topic and unsure of how to even make a dent in the topical surface (especially since I am no expert and fall far short of my desires to excel in this area!), I am going to visit the Ultimate Relationship Room for thoughts to consider and to pass on to you.  The door is nothing fancy . . . obviously not intended to intimidate . . . God wants all of His children to approach Him on a continual basis.  He tells  those of us who have accepted Jesus' sacrificial death and ressurrection in our behalf to "pray without ceasing." We read in Hebrews 4:16, "Let us therefore draw near with confidence to the throne of grace, that we may receive mercy and may find grace to help in time of need."
Once inside the door, I find myself surrounded by the most glorious stained glass windows.  Overhead, I catch just the glimpse of the four enormous legs protruding from underneath a mass of heavy clouds.  Somehow, I know in my spirit that they are the foundation of a Great Throne.   Splendid wisps of fabulous colors wave and dance around the legs, constantly moving, leaving hazy trails that last for seconds, then disappear and are immediately replaced by more tremulous, glowing forms.
Turning my attention to the beautiful stained glass work,  I ponder their significance, and am immediately confronted with the similarities to those windows and to the concept of prayer.  Prayer is composed of words . . . my heart, mind and soul pouring out fears and feelings and gratitude to my heavenly Father.  But prayer is so much more than words.  I visualize prayers as a stained glass window . . . each separate piece a work of art in itself, yet connected to make up the whole image.
Images . . . that's it!
Here are some images I have experienced in my life, expressing what it means to pray:
Every evening, especially in winter when the darkness arrives early, I have a ritual of going to different rooms in my house, drawing the drapes in the living room (unless my husband beats me to it!), and pulling down the shades in all the bedrooms, closing the blinds in our bathroom.  Having practiced this ritual for many years, to me it symbolizes the closing out of the world's business and influence on the life of my family, as we wind down our day, settling in, enjoying the security of just being a family together . . . or these days of the empty nest, just a couple.  That is how I want to come to prayer, closing out all other influences . . . just resting alone with God, relishing the security of His presence.
Of course, at other times, I pray "on the run," as I do my housework and errands.  So many practical prayers through the years: "God, please don't let K throw up when he gives his first speech today in school."  "Put the kids to bed earlier than usual tonight at the slumber party since J needs his rest."   "Please make this dessert turn out good, because I don't have the time and energy to make another one."  In all our daily problems, God hears and cares and answers.
In the face of hardship and suffering . . . kneeling down at the bedside with my husband, holding hands while he leads us in prayer for a loved one, or direction we desperately need.
Saying the same words over and over to God for 25 years before I even see the beginning of an  answer.
Lying in my bed, too sick to think clearly, closing my hand and imagining that Jesus is sitting by my bedside and clutching my weak hand in His strong one.
Forming portraits in my mind of specific people I want to lift up in prayer when I am too weak to form words.
Inadequately groping to form the right words for my request and then remembering the the Holy Spirit prays for me with "groanings too deep for words. . ."  Romans 8:26
Trusting God when I can not only not see the end of the tunnel, but not even its entrance!
Letting the dust settle and the dishes wait until I have spent time with my Lord.
Shedding tears of confession when once again I have failed God or taken it upon myself to worry . . . again.


From God's point of view . . . sometimes when I am worshipping God with others who love Him, I wonder if maybe when God looks down on this world He created . . . now overcast with sin . . .  maybe He sees our prayers and praises rise up as tiny lights penetrating the dark shroud that envelopes our world . . . to give Him joy in return for all that He has given us.
Even little children can appreciate prayer, long before they understand what it is all about.  I was playing piano and singing with little c (my youngest grandson) one day last week, and in between every "Jesus song," he wanted to stop and pray.  He closed his eyes, bowed his little head and folded his hands until I finished saying a short prayer.  Many times, he wanted more than one prayer before we could resume singing!  Yes, there is much about prayer he doesn't understand, but he realizes how special it is . . . thanks to the way his mommy and daddy are raising him!
Have you ever considered that when you are praying for another person and if that person is praying for you at exactly the same time, it is as if your spirits are joined "in hand" around the throne of God?  What an awesome thought! Will you join me at God's throne soon?  I need your prayers and ask God to help me be faithful to pray for you!
As we close today, I'm sure you can recall many images of your own stained glass prayer window to add to my list.  We are told in Rev. 8:3-4 of "the prayers of all the saints upon the golden altar which was before the throne.  And the smoke of the incense, with the prayers of the saints, went up before God out of the angel's hand."  Our prayers are continually rising before God's throne.  He values our prayers that much!  How much do I value the invitation He extends for me to pray?

Wednesday, January 18, 2012

KEY #A16: RELATING IN RELATIONSHIPS

Relationships . . . a huge topic!  So huge that I don't know what to say in a short time that could be meaningful,  so I dug out my old Webster again, and looked up "relate."  Once again, I was surprised!  (I'm really enjoying these word studies, which expand my own understanding of the English language.)
The first definition listed is "to bring back" (taken from the word "relatus"pp. of "referre").  Interesting . . . but as I think about it, don't relationships often require the "bringing back" of persons to each other who have drifted apart because of sins common to the human race or simple misunderstandings?  Consider the concept of establishing a relationship between us and our heavenly Father.  Didn't Jesus' death on the cross and subsequent resurrection provide for the possibility of re-establishing, or "bringing  back" the relationship between God and mankind?  The original relationship God had with Adam and Eve that has been disrupted by our sin?
Then we move on in the definition to "have connection, show sympathetic understanding and awareness." Traveling with my new four guests in my little lilac vehicle this past week in the Land of Abundant Life has been a study and an exercise in relationships!  Our close quarters during driving time have tested and stretched each one of us, but I have also been encouraged to see increasing efforts to communicate ("connect and sympathize"), therefore producing greater understanding and listening skills.
We arrived together today at the RELATING DOOR, and I approached it with my key, prepared to lead the way inside.  To my surprise, a man stood outside the door, presumably guarding the entrance.  He was dressed all in white and his face glowed with peace and joy.  Assuming he was an angel, my hands began to shake as I clasped the precious key tightly and glanced around to see the others hanging way back.  Wish I could have hung back too, but I was the key holder!
"Please leave your possessions outside the door," the guard addressed me kindly.
I thought I had left everything in the car and glanced down to my hands, where he was staring.  "Oh, I just need my lunch bag and my lap top . . . and my cell phone . . . and my purse . . . "
"You don't need to take any possessions inside this door."
"But . . . " I hesitated.  Not knowing if there were thieves in this Land, I had been careful up to this point to protect my possessions.
He seemed to read my mind.  "I'll keep your belongings safely for you."
Still I hesitated, admitting to myself that those simple possessions did mean something to me.  The lap top could be replaced, but its case had been a gift from a friend and is engraved with a favorite Bible verse.  My lunch bag, of course, isn't important, but I chose it because it is designed with artwork that suits my personality.  How important was this RELATING ROOM anyway?  Maybe I should just skip it altogether.
"There is something you can bring with you, my friend," he spoke with encouragement.  "You can bring people."
I looked at my new friends waiting patiently behind me.  Then I faced the decision that I evidently was intended to face:  which was more important . . . my stuff . . . or my friends?  Should I be selfish and deny these people the enriching experience that no doubt waited us behind these doors?
Quietly, I set my stuff down besides the angel, turned and beckoned for my companions.
Once inside, I realized the foolishness of my hesitation.  I saw only people . . . in a gorgeous setting of nature, of course.  No televisions, games, stores, or any kind of material pleasures.  Not even chairs or tables.  Some sat on rocks or grassy hillsides, others on the ground.  Children explored objects of nature and played games of imagination.  Plenty of people were quite obviously finding simple pleasure in each other's company.  And I did too!  The time flew by.  I found my load lighter, and my self free of accumulations, able to focus my complete attention on another person and share with them, heart to heart. (Even as I write this, my husband is trying to talk with me and I am hurriedly writing these words down so as not to lose my train of thought.  Honey, do you want to take a break with me in an hour or so and have tea and relate?  I make a mental note to invite him.  :) )
Once again, I have taken up more space here than I intended!  One more thought to leave us with today . . . the importance of communicating properly with each other, which is vital to the process of relating.  I personally think that the most important tool for good communication with another person, especially one whom we love, is to speak words that he/she will understand the same way we intend for them to hear.  And this takes practice, on both the speaker's and the listener's part!  As an example, I recall an incident where my oldest son, K, was in kindergarten.  His class had just finished a session of informing students what to do if they or their house caught fire.  He got the "Stop, Drop and Roll" part, which was fortunate.  But then he explained to me that if our house caught on fire he was supposed to take his shoes off and run outside!  Further questioning revealed that the teacher had actually told him that if the house was on fire, he was supposed to run outside immediately, not even stopping to remove his shoes.  Which of course, made far more sense to me, and eventually to him, too, once he gave it some  thought.  I don't know what words the teachers used (most likely at least part of the miscommunication involved poor listening on his part (!)  But this example does show the importance of expressing ourselves in ways that will reach the other person with the appropriate understanding, and also the importance of checking to make sure the other individual did get the concept you were initially trying to get across!  
Let's return for a moment to the first definition: "bring back."  That sounds like the process of reconciliation to me.  As Christians, let's make it a point to be conscious to speak and relate in ways that will help others to reconcile to Christ, which is truly all that matters in this world!  "Now all these things are from God, who reconciled us to Himself through Christ, and gave us the ministry of reconciliation,"  2 Corinthians 5:18
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Wednesday, January 11, 2012

KEY #A15: NURTURE

Welcome to the NURTURING ROOM!
Here is one key where we see the need to spend ourselves on others.  And believe it or not, whatever we do inside this door will reward us, too!
As a mother, I have no trouble understanding the concept of the word, "nurture."  It comes very natural to me.  In fact, when I was a child, the only thing I wanted to be when I grew up was a mother (that is, besides becoming an author).
We moved to the lake when I was about 7 years old, into the house that my Dad built for us.  Nearly every summer, relatives came to visit, usually spending a week or two living with us.  I looked forward with exciting anticipation for their arrival and cried when they left.  Since our house was small, my parents decided to make over our garage into a guest house every summer.  We parked the car in a carport next to the garage, and my dad put a sink, stove and refrigerator, along with a small bathroom, on one side of the garage.  Then Mom and I stocked the cupboards with an assortment of plates, glasses, silverware, cooking utensils, etc., added a couple of folding beds and we were ready for company!
Besides making memories with my uncles, aunts and cousins, the guest room had an additional advantage for me.  I had the biggest play house of any of my friends!  During the times when we had no company, my dolls lived out there.  Each morning, I would head over to get them dressed and ready for their day.   I took time to feed my dolls between my swimming and house chores, and tucked them in bed after supper.  I learned the meaning of "nurture" as I cared for each of my precious dolls.
Webster says to nurture means to "feed or nourish, promote the development of, train, educate, etc."  Let's focus on "promote the development of."  Regarding the Christian life, I have come up with my own definition of "nurturing":  "To help others develop along The Road of Abundant Life."   
When I grew up, I no longer expected the same kind of nurturing from my parents as I had had as a child.  In fact, I no longer wanted it!  But I still needed nurturing, from God and other people.  That is one of the advantages and responsibilities of belonging to a church.  We nurture each other in the family of God.  I feel sorry for those who do not have a church family, because they are missing out on tremendous ways  to grow and experience their faith.
Now it is time to turn the key to the room headed "NURTURING."  Did you think I forgot the door again?  :)  Nope!  Not this time; just had to "set the stage."  Inside, I discover a long line of people, waiting and watching eagerly.  What are they waiting for?  A bus or some means of transportation?  They heads swivel to each side and back, and they murmur amongst themselves.  I approach one pleasant looking woman and venture a hesitant question,  "Are you all expecting a ride somewhere?"  I wondered if I should join them.
"Oh, yes" she said.  "Are you here to pick me up?"
"Well, I don't think so."  I shook my head.
Her face fell.
"What's wrong?" I asked.
"You see, we all met Jesus at the Door and were welcomed into the Land of Abundant Life, but we were told to wait here for someone to pick us up and guide us along the way.  It's been a while yet, and many more people have joined us, but no one has come for any of us.   Our crowd just seems to be getting bigger."
I thought a moment.  Could it be possible?  Maybe I was supposed to pick up a few people and take with me along my journey.
"I could fit four more in my vehicle.  Would you like to come with me?"
"Oh, very much."  Her eyes brightened and she quickly turned to speak to a few people standing nearby.    Their faces also lit up with eagerness and they all picked up their belongings, preparing to come with me.
"My trunk is a little small, but I think I can get your bags inside it," I hefted the first one and placed in the the back of my trunk.
"Here, let me help," a muscular man hoisted the rest of the bags with ease and soon the job was done.
"Thanks.  Please find a seat, everybody."
There was some laughter as my guests climbered into my little vehicle and I apologized for the crowded space.  "Maybe I should have only invited three persons."
Anxious expressions appeared on all the faces.
"But we'll manage," I said.  I couldn't turn any of them out now!
It's kind of cozy," said a little girl.  "We'll get to know each other fast!"  We all laughed and the conversations began.  Several hours later, after we'd all had a nourishing meal at the next Hospitality House and prepared to split up into our own rooms for a good night's sleep, I asked myself how I had managed to journey along this road alone for so long.  I could still find time for myself at rest stops along the way, but had missed out on so much kindness and companionship.  My world is widened and my life is made more abundant by developing relationships with others!
So how do we nourish our Christian brothers and sisters in God's family?  Here are just a few ways:
1.  Share time together, worshiping our heavenly Father and studying His Word.  ". . . not forsaking our own assembling together, as is the habit of some."  Hebrews 10:25a
2.  Work together.  A common goal brings people closer.
3.  Help each other.  "In everything I showed you that by working hard in this manner you must help the weak and remember the words of the Lord Jesus, that He Himself said, 'It is more blessed to give than to receive." Acts 20:35.
4.  Hold each other accountable . . .  to spend time reading and studying God's Word of Life.
5.  Hold each other up in prayer.
6.  Inspire each other.  "let us consider how to stimulate one another to love and good deeds," Hebrews 10:24
7. Encourage each other.  ". . . but encouraging one another; and all the more, as you see the day drawing near."  Hebrews 10:25b
Remember we are all family. . . God's family. . . and in a family, we realize that none of us is perfect, not even the pastor!  So I ask You, Father God, to help me live with grace and forgiveness towards all people.  And I thank You also for the forgiveness and nurturing I receive from the rest of my family!
As I crawl into my comfy bed tonight in the roadside Hospitality House, my thoughts turn to the crowd of people I left waiting in the Nurture Room . . . when will their ride come?
Will you stop and pick them up?

Wednesday, January 4, 2012

KEY #A14: ENTHUSIASM AND EXCITEMENT

Congratulations go to Kyle Dimler from Willmar, Minnesota, for winning the contest for this series!  He correctly guessed the phrase, "I LIVE BY THE GOLDEN RULE."  Remember learning it as a child?  Or later on?  "Do unto others as you want them to do unto you."  Matthew 7:12  A wonderful guideline for success in relationships, which seems to be a hot topic today!   Kyle will receive two free books: my novel, The Rose Journal, and its companion Bible study, The View From Eternity.  Six more weeks until the next series begins!
This is the first week of the Year of our Lord, 2012. And with the whole new year ahead of us (unless Jesus comes back for us before it is over), it seems appropriate to hold the Key for Enthusiasm/Excitement in my hands as I approach a brand new, shiny, silver door displaying a glittery calendar posted on the front.  The first page, January 1, is waving in the wind as though personally anticipating the excitement the new year will bring.  I open the door and find myself in the midst of the most fabulous party scene I could imagine, full of enthusiastic people . . . Vital people adorned in Vibrantly colored costumes exploring Various aVenues of creatiVe endeaVors (maybe I should have chosen "V" for this blog!   I like to play with words :)
Oooh, how fun!  I love parties!  In fact, I have planned and helped to plan a ton of parties through the years, including a "This Is Your Life" for one of my dad's special birthdays (maybe his 80th?), my daughter, E's, first slumber party where we played a game (my foolish idea) with a blindfold and chocolate pudding.  I ended up washing nine little girl's blouses and one head of hair.  One of the girls  asked me if I knew where the bathroom was (in my own house)!   Yours truly also had the bright idea of putting my husband's extremely realistic gorilla mask on his sister, B, who does the world's best vocal gorilla impression, and invite each girl in to meet the "wild animal" in person.  Plenty of deliciously frightful screams.  Girls actually make more noise at a party than boys do, if you can believe that!  
Years earlier, at E's second birthday party, one of her little friends (a boy) picked up our dog's dish and passed it around to half of the children before I caught him.  (Not my idea this time!) All the guests survived.
Growing up in the country, I planned the games for our annual Christmas parties with the neighbors.  Everybody, young and old, participated in our silly games.  What a super-fun way to bridge the generation gap!  I do like to laugh . . .  and to see others laughing and having a good time!  Don't you suppose it warms God's heart to see me laughing and enjoying a good time?  And seeing you, too?
Getting back to the party going on the the Enthusiasm/Excitement Room of 2012 . . . Here I am surrounded, not only by a host of enthusiastic people to meet and get to know, but also tons of objects and activities, books and other media resources . . . more than I could even begin to explore in many years to come.  So I have lots of decisions to make as I consider my goals for the coming year.  Fasciated as I am with the vast assortment of choices, the most exciting thing is the presence of God's Holy Spirit hovering near and directing each person's attention and efforts.  Does God have something special already chosen for me to do for Him in 2012?  And for you?  I know whatever He has in His plan for us will be infinitely rewarding and fulfilling!  "For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them."  Ephesians 2:19
However, at this time, I am feeling sort of overwhelmed by all my plans for January, not to mention the whole year!  And I need God's gift of enthusiasm right now . . . today!  So I took out my faithful 1953 first copyrighted Webster's dictionary to see exactly what I am asking for and was surprised to discover the following definition for "enthusiasm":  "orig. (origin, originally), supernatural inspiration or possession." Imagine that!?!  I guess I'm going to the right source to receive the gift of enthusiasm!  It also says "intense or eager interest; zeal."  So when I ask for enthusiasm, I am asking God to give me His "supernatural inspiration" along with "intense and eager interest, zeal" for whatever work He has chosen for me to do in the coming year.  And do you know, I think He's already answering my prayer?  Once again, I remind myself that I have chosen to submit to His plans and trust Him to give me the time and energy to tackle His assigned projects with a great measure of enthusiasm, "working unto the Lord."
Back again to exciting parties: Let's consider the biggest party of them all!  In December, I just finished reading through the book of Revelation, the last book of the Bible, during my daily "devotion" time (Remember last week's blog on "devotion?")  What an exciting book!  So many people avoid reading the fascinating book of Revelation because it is complicated and hard to understand, but this is the revelation given by Jesus Christ about our eternal future.  What could be more important?  Our greatest Hope is contained and set forth in this book!  Knowing that Jesus is always with me and has planned a special place for me in His perfect and glorious Kingdom is what keeps me going in this world contaminated with sin and suffering.  In fact if we ignore the last book of the Bible, we miss the end of the story . . .  God's Story . . . that He has been recording for His people from before Time began!  Why would I read all the chapters of my favorite mystery novel and skip the last chapter?  I wouldn't!  So why would I read all about God's story and skip the last chapter?
We are even promised a special blessing if we read the book of Revelation.  "Blessed is he who reads and those who hear the words of the prophecy, and heed the things which are written in it . . . "  Revelation 1:3a 
Yes, Revelation does talk about the horrible, indescribable eternal future waiting for those who reject Jesus Christ's love and that, admittedly, is hard to read when I think of loved ones who are journeying on the Dead End Road instead of the Road of Abundant Life.  But it also begins to share a glimpse of the state of total joy and excitement that awaits God's children, those who have received His gift of salvation and follow Him along the road to Heaven.
Especially exciting are the last chapters where we read about the Wedding Feast of the Lamb, where believers become the Bride of Jesus Christ.  God is planning this party to reward His children for their faithfulness and to shower His unending supply of bountiful gifts upon them.  What a celebration that will be!  What a glorious party planned by the Creator of all things!
I'll look for you there and save a seat!  :)